The norm of modern millennial dating culture is all over the place. The dates have turned into hanging out, the writing of letters and even the exchange of numbers have turned into sliding in DMs. Much as we hate it, we have to adapt to the new culture of dating. But rather than simply acclimating into the new norm, we can still usher back the old romantics. Every woman has that weakness for the romantics, and impressing young Latina women is just the same.
Sometimes it’s the little things that make a lasting impression. There are big and bold things that you can do, but remember that the simple ways to impress a woman are what usually tugs the heartstrings.
The biggest driver in the change of the dating norms is technology. Communication is easier than ever before as we are essentially connected to the entire world. In order to be impressive when you meet Latin women, you have to keep up with technology. To start with, learn how technology is utilized in the new dating norms and how your partner is utilizing technology as well. Chances are she’ll be using technology beyond emails and communication.
What we have to understand about Latinas is that they are much grounded on their cultural identity. They are very proud of their heritage. There will be cultural barriers and cultural differences between you and the woman you want to impress, which is why it is important to pay attention and immerse yourself in the Latin American culture.
It is okay to ask about their culture; in fact they’d love to help you learn more. This tells them that you’re not just interested in her physical attributes but also her identity as a whole.
As you are immersing yourself into her culture, don’t assimilate. Instead, embrace biculturalism. If you are learning about her culture, chances are she wants to learn about yours also. Find the right balance between both your cultures and learn not just to cohabitate in the relationship but rather to thrive.
The main language spoken in Latin American communities is Spanish. And though young Latina women have a deep connection with their tradition, millennial Latinas prefer speaking and communicating in English. While Spanish is a language they speak well, they tend to find balance in their bilingual voice.
Integrating English and Spanish in your communication will greatly impress your woman. Now there is such a thing as “too Spanish.” This means that you’re trying too hard to speak Spanish even if the both of you are communicating effectively in English. If she speaks Spanish, then speak Spanish; otherwise, don’t try to force your Spanish 101 into the conversation.
If you are not well-versed in her local language to start with, it would bode well if you try to learn her language as well. The important thing for them is for foreign men to communicate effectively.
Latinas love food. Their culinary influences are diverse, but one thing you have to keep in mind is that they love spicy food. Food is a big part of their dating culture. Turning down food is considered impolite, and mind you, sometimes the food can get quite spicy. So you’re going to have to build up the spice tolerance and learn to love hot.
What’s going to impress your Latina woman even more is learning to cook. Serving her homemade meals and having a romantic dinner goes a long way. If you’re not a culinary wizard, start by making easy to cook dishes. And since Latinas are generally food lovers, throw in some fusion of different cultures into your cooking.
Dancing is a big part of a Latina’s culture, so that’s something you have to keep in mind too. Whether it’s a quinceñera or a big festival or even Sundays at church, you’ll most likely see them dancing. So lace up your dancing shoes and learn to dance traditional Latin dances, and let the music flow through you. If you’re not much of a dancer, don’t shy away from moving your hips, and enjoy being a part of the celebration.
Latin women are very familial in nature. Family is an important element in their lives, and as a result, they keep close ties with their kin. Take the time to get to know her family. Winning the heart of a Latina isn’t just about impressing the woman; it’s also about impressing the family.
Latina women have active social lives. Embrace her community and make the effort to belong. Their families are very receptive of guests, and they love getting to know them. There are many traditional occasions that Latin American families celebrate, and the more family members they can celebrate those with, the better. They might be quite different from the family that you have and the cultures and traditions you celebrate, but if you give them time, they’ll start to grow on you.
If you’re thinking about whether or not you’re good enough, whether she likes you or not, whether you’re good looking or not, whether you’re smart enough or not, or whatever it is, chances are you’re bound to project those.
Be confident about who you are. A smile isn’t the only beautiful thing to wear. Be confident that you’re going to impress your woman, and sure enough you will. Don’t confuse confidence with arrogance. Arrogance is standing tall over everyone around you. Confidence, on the other hand, is standing tall with everyone around you.
Going the extra mile doesn’t mean that you have to spend tons of money to buy her expensive gifts. No. What that means is that you go the extra mile by being a gentleman. Buy her flowers, open doors for her, listen to her when she’s speaking, and focus on her even though she doesn’t say, “Pay attention to me!”
Remember the nuggets of information she says. Maybe she will tell you she isn’t that into shrimp or that she enjoys classical music. Remember these, and when she finds out that these are retained in your memory bank, it will greatly impress her. It will make her feel important. It will make her feel like she matters.
Also, chivalry always wins when trying to impress younger Latina women. Being a gentleman isn’t a choice of whether you can be one or not. It’s a decision to be one, and it’s a decision you have to make every day.
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